4 comments on “Dom-frenzy?

  1. Wow .. just wow. (and hi!).

    Words actually fail to express the enormous density. However I am not sure this is actually a case of Dom-Frenzy but rather one of … trying to portray themselves as very alpha (a term I abhor personally because of the concatenations).

    I wonder if the above is, because I think a lot of people are enjoying -especially in SL- the fantasy side of BDSM, rather than it being part of their lifestyle/relationship model. God help this planet if these people actually serious in their convictions.

    *hugs* Ignore them for they are silly. Alternatively .. Can I claw their faces, please please please?

    • Hi Lex! *hugs back!*

      Sure, if you would like to claw em up…by all means go right ahead! Not sure they are worth the effort though. 🙂

      You could be right about that regarding the RP/fantasy side of BDSM, rather than lifestyle. However some even claim to be lifestyle and pull that crap. I had thought of myself as well educated, but my new Sir is already showing and teaching me how very different things are with Him, from what I’ve experienced before. I can’t help but also blame it partly on things like the 50 shades books or those “beginner” BDSM playpacks at the commercial lingerie stores. Folks want a taste of the role, the naughtiness, the kinkiness- without really having to commit or knowing fully what is involved. The entire “Just because I play a slave in SL does not make me one in RL!” (And yes, I have heard that from several girls at the Gor Hub- a cesspit that place!) Match those girls, or heck, even genuine subs wanting to learn in SL, up with one of the creepers and you get all sorts of trouble. 😦

      Thank you for the comment and the add! 🙂

      • “However some even claim to be lifestyle and pull that crap” – and I can claim to be a millionaire but that claim doesn’t make it any more true. A good majority of people in SL claim to be something they are not – from the men playing on female avs to the so called “Masters” and “slaves”. While BDSM is very personalized to each relationship most of the shit they spout is exactly that. With your learning you will find it becomes much easier to separate the players from the people who legitimately are involved or interested in becoming so. I’m always here for you in any possible way.

      • “With your learning you will find it becomes much easier to separate the players from the people who legitimately are involved or interested in becoming so. I’m always here for you in any possible way.”

        I hope so Sir, and thank you so very, very much. Your girl is here for you too.
        Happy New Years! So happy to be starting 2014 with you. 🙂

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